Today's generation we expect TOO much from others. We want our significant others to be fit. Why not just be happy with the person you are or the person you are with? Society makes us all feel like we are not good enough, but people don't realize what we see on television or social media is all FAKE. The secret tool to look perfect is PHOTOSHOP. Photoshop, makes every person on social media look flawless. Nobody is PERFECT?! but we are all special in our own way. Stop trying to be someone else, be yourself. Being yourself is the only hard job you have. You were put into this world to be YOU, not somebody else. We see skinny women/men and immediately want to be just like them. GOOD NEWS: they are not as skinny as you think, and if they are they are SICK anorexic human beings. Please...God has put you and myself into this world to be someone, anyone, and to do anything we want to achieve. Stop worrying about your body and start worrying about the future and what it holds for you. Shame for our body is not necessary. Be happy for who you are. Only real friends and family will accept you for who you are.